tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-490338849534786238.post7000563062207773787..comments2013-07-13T00:02:19.429+00:00Comments on Requiem: Enough~Justinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17976657199266608132noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-490338849534786238.post-27260448690066790172007-05-30T13:38:00.000+00:002007-05-30T13:38:00.000+00:00(Stands up and applauds)"this is not my problem". ...(Stands up and applauds)<BR/><BR/>"this is not my problem". GOD DAMN RIGHT IT'S NOT. Big, big kudos to you for hitting that point, Justin. You aren't responsible for making things easier for her, and you SHOULD be angry that she's contacted you for that.<BR/><BR/>Big, big step. And I agree with your friend Scott. No more contact, yo. You don't need it and NOTHING will come of it. IT's just holding out hope that something will change and she'll come back. But that ship has sailed and you wouldn't want what you'd get back.inowpronounceyouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00233308402390972423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-490338849534786238.post-79039582645280006602007-05-30T13:12:00.000+00:002007-05-30T13:12:00.000+00:00This post breaks me a little. It's all I've wanted...This post breaks me a little. It's all I've wanted to say to some of the people in my past but I lacked the courage to do so. <BR/><BR/>I really admire the way you let us in to how you are wrestling with change. I've studied in Buddhism that it's important to remember that no matter how outside things change, there is an unalterable essence to us that is, for lack of a less-freighted term, our divinity. Sometimes folks will lead us astray from that -- but the courageous, like you, I think, find their way back.jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240622924482291003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-490338849534786238.post-77766364143381683622007-05-30T01:03:00.000+00:002007-05-30T01:03:00.000+00:00Just one kinda sterile bit of advice, but I think ...Just one kinda sterile bit of advice, but I think the best I can provide: stop talking to her altogether. By the way, I no longer talk to Jen. It will never end if you don't stop. All this said with lots of love and understanding, of course.SJ Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09304177082159067335noreply@blogger.com